Wait a minute? Who kissed there? You said "they"? Oh well I have a break up sex too. Hahaha.. It was great but after I realized my sanity were ignored. Hahaha.. I can share it but let's talk about your experience first. Dude you got to fight for the one you love. Dont hold yourself back because of the people surrounds you said so or you feared of something. Do what your mind and your heart tell you to do and you won't regret it. People's voices are just advices and guides. It is up to you to decide, not them.