^ yeah that's right but how about those who just get married because the baby comes first? maybe its doesnt touched the issue of love,,, and at your statement about successful marriage yeah you know i really envy those old couples who happen to be still living together whenever i saw them anywhere i cant help but wonder what makes them lasts that long for a young age such i, who married the father of my kid, i can't see myself growing old with him anymore... sad but as the song states "i dont regret the life i chose for me"