We're not arguing. We're just discussing about the cheats and trusts. -- I was cheated before. It was a LDR (long distance relationship) and the online forum and YM were our medium. [spoiler]We became bf/gf after she broke up with her online bf. We were very close and all those. Before, whenever I had a gf in online, I usually ask them their passwords in friendster and email, etc. But in her time, she couldn't give me her password. She made so many excuses. I became curious and irritated. Then eventually she made a confession. She said she have a bf near her area. They go to the same school and have dates and all those. I didn't got angry at her but rather I listen to all the words she said. I told her if she can break up with him, I will remain for her. So after a month, she still couldn't break up with her other bf. I waited for so long. I became upset and broke up with her. The break up was so dramatic, etc. Haha.. We even argue about it. But after few weeks, she discovered that her bf also cheated on her.[/spoiler] That's what I call KARMA!