^ ^ weee nice news! now I can freely share my experiences without any doubts. not only me but other members here as well. [quote=eehjhay]Here are some reasons: • For the thrill and excitement • Curiousity • Way to express the unsaid feelings onto his/her first partner • Peer pressure • Other people do it, then so tend to think that it is alright to do it also • Seeking for trouble • Revenge • Lack of interest on the first partner • Seeking for the love and attention that the first partner lacks • For fun • Just tripping[/quote] ^ ^uhm can i add something? feelings or care that are not felt from the other party (lack of care and attention).