hahaha respect plus love with lust will make ur affair last i rather have those all... know why... other man fool their woman vice-versa.. since men tend to experiment.. and want to test how it feels.. if u a kind of person who rnt open with the idea.. the tendency is for ur partner to back off and try to seek answer with others... respect is a must but when it comes to bed... animal instict last... lol.. just be u...