[quote=eehjhay]Can I say this? [spoiler]Your girl friend doesn't love you the way you love her now. She's taking you for granted. Do not blind yourself from reality. Eventually you and your girlfriend will break up. You have to gather as much strength and courage as you can. Wake up! Thanks again you for your "real" answer, but damn, bro...could you make me feel any worse? No offense, and more than 1 person has told me this. And I know it sounds so cliche...but I have to disagree, and say that I don't think you could make that kind of assumption without knowing that other person (in this case, my girlfriend). I should maybe point out that my reasons for my worries about the best friend/ex situation is not because anything that my girlfriend (Michelle) has done...it's due to [b]my[/b] ex-girlfriend who fell for her best friend. So I just have a hard time accepting that you can just be friends with an ex, and it's not because I don't trust Michelle. In the end, you may very well be right, and her and I may break up. If it happens, it happens. I've had my heart broken 3 times previously and I'm ready for it whenever it comes. I'm almost numb to that kind of pain at this point. [/spoiler] It might be harsh but still you need some wake up call.[/quote] [align=center][b]***edit***edit***edit***edit***edit***[/b][/align] [align=center][b]Since we just tackled this issue, I thought it was ironic that I would come across this article today. What do you all think of this one?[/b][/align] [spoiler] [align=center][b]Romanian child rape victim allowed abortion[/b][/align] [b](CNN)[/b] -- A Romanian government committee has decided to allow a pregnant 11-year-old who was raped by her teenage uncle to have an abortion, a government spokesman said Friday. The girl is 21 weeks pregnant -- too far along to have an abortion in Romania, where the limit is 14 weeks unless the pregnancy poses problems for the mother's health, said the spokesman, who asked not to be named. The girl's parents had said they would take their daughter to Britain for an abortion if the committee did not allow her to have one in Romania. Abortions are legal in Britain up to 24 weeks. It was unclear whether the parents would still take the girl to Britain following the committee's decision, reached late Thursday. Church groups have opposed an abortion for the girl, the government spokesman said. The Romanian Orthodox Church has urged the girl to keep the baby, and has said it will take care of the baby if the family wants to give it up for adoption, he said. The uncle who raped the girl has since disappeared, the Romanian Health Ministry said. Media reports say the uncle is age 19. --The church will take care of the baby if the family wants to give it up for adoption...nevermind the fact that she's [b]11 years old [/b]and has no business having to go through a pregnancy, especially a pregnancy from a rape !!!! (that's just my opinion) [/spoiler]

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