i want to comment huh... now that ej had spoken about his thoughts and i felt bad for jesse [quote=eehjhay]That's how I learn how to be patient whenever I am in a Long Distance Relationship. You are very excited to have a chat with your girl, but then your girl won't give much concern about it. You put effort on to something for her, but then your expectation is too much. and to this one You have to be patient, capable of balancing or limiting your affections and feelings for your partner, [b]and also don't give much priority to your partner[/b]. You need to be busy also for some times either to your work, your study, or your family. Always think that you're not just experiencing those, but also you are learning how to improve yourself to deal with those kinds of situations.[/quote] comment: now i figured it out why are you like that to your partner, well anyway well said. i somewhat agree with it. but eventually, guys and girls are really different, it also get into human nature. i have been in a long distance relationship and i can say that i really find it hard to maintain it then, 1. you dont often see each other 2. you two dont feel each other 3. its was just full promises of being together soon and to think that 4. fate will always be the one to dictate in our lives, always remember that... as long as you two are not really living together in flesh. misunderstandings will always be present inside the relationship. well i can say that im finding it really hard to understand the my other party. so i need to forget about us for the meantime so the relationship will stay. to avoid arguments, but thinking about him everyday really kills me, even if im that busy, i tend to seek for much attention from him. i can`t help but expect from his attention yet as ej said giving not much of the person as his priority makes me think that he`s just fooling around... now where`s the TRUST there... reasons reasons reasons... ej makes me think that my guy doesnt really needs me nor love me the way i love him. it makes me feel bad huh...