[spoiler][quote=butterfly_lady_08]as long as you two are not really living together in flesh. misunderstandings will always be present inside the relationship. well i can say that im finding it really hard to understand the my other party. so i need to forget about us for the meantime so the relationship will stay. to avoid arguments, but thinking about him everyday really kills me, even if im that busy, i tend to seek for much attention from him. i can`t help but expect from his attention yet as ej said giving not much of the person as his priority makes me think that he`s just fooling around... now where`s the TRUST there... reasons reasons reasons... ej makes me think that my guy doesnt really needs me nor love me the way i love him. it makes me feel bad huh...[/quote] Maybe you didn't understand my point. In order to stay sane in spite of arguments and all those problems, you need to maintain and balance your priorities. Do not put yourself in a position that you can lose your grounds and give up everything for your partner. "Balance" is one of the main factor you need to remember. This is same as life. Life has full of surprises, and its unfair if we may think, but it's the reality. What we can do is take all those experiences, and apply to your present and prepare for the future.[/spoiler] [spoiler][quote=bhebhiej]Thanks again you for your "real" answer, but damn, bro...could you make me feel any worse? No offense, and more than 1 person has told me this. And I know it sounds so cliche...but I have to disagree, and say that I don't think you could make that kind of assumption without knowing that other person (in this case, my girlfriend).[/quote] I know I don't know yet your girl friend but if I put myself in your position, I'd think the possibilities what are her reason why she acted like that. Although somehow you made her upset by being demanding a bit, but still, it was 4 days without communications with you. I guess women would probably be craving to talk to their boyfriends after 4 days of silence. However, in your case, was different. Do not just think all the positive thoughts. Anyway it's just my opinion and advice. It's up to you if you would like to apply it. No more advices from me about that.[/spoiler]