[quote=switpotato]regarding separation... hmmmm... i dont believe in marriage ... thats why i dont know wer to side... all i know if marriage end up in dvorce wat more an ordinary girl boi relationship... again non last forever.. sooner or later u will be ditch lol.. bad chita...[/quote] wow... we jive on that... i really dont believe in marriage though i happen to commit in it, get hooked and now trapped... i dont regret having my son yet i somewhat realized that i should have chosen not to commit on that... so separation should be tolerated, here in our country phils i know its been legalized you have to go on court hearings and counselling trying to work out the relationship... honestly i have been through to the early process... spending a lot of money to pay lawyer.. good rhing its not my money its his`