[b]@ fis.ms[/b] [quote=fis.ms][spoiler] [sup][b]*just an example ... not pertaining this to any incident here or outside class x*[/b][/sup] [u]Ex. [/u] [i]if you keep on hounding your partner ,wanting every single detail of what she's doing and wanting to speak to her on a 24 hour basis ,don't you think she'll feel a bit trapped ? I mean she has her own life too and if you make her the center of yours and you end up neglecting you family,friends and activities in the end it's you who'll suffer.[/i] Yeah, yeah, no doubt. But I'm not hounding her 24/7, I'm not asking for every detail, and I'm not trying to speak to her on a 24 hour basis. She was "missing" for 4 days. For 4 days I didn't know if she was dead or alive...so when she finally got a chance to be online, I was excited, and I wanted some "quality" time with her. After 4 days of not knowing if she was dead or alive, I was just kinda hoping that for even just 30 minutes that I could have her one on one instead of having to share her with her friend (just that one time) and her FS. So, ok, maybe I over reacted or asked for too much....but I know if she had been in MY shoes and it was me who had disappeared for that long....I would have given her some quality time because I would have known and understood that she had been missing me. Good feedback from all of you. Thank you, ladies and gentlemen.[/spoiler][/quote]