waaa i missed jesse's two topics... :3 about LDR's .. [spoiler] anyway, i will still post about it. i agree with ej about balancing your life. i've just ended up an LDR lately because this guy's getting possessive and whenever i miss a day of not chatting with him, he'll start to ask so many questions and assume and conclude that i'm busy spending with another guy when in fact i just don't like talking to him on a 24-hour basis(as what rose pointed) because hello, i have my own life too, i must do my own chores at home too and study and all. what the?! then i have this own instinct that when a guy suddenly thinks that i'm "kind-of-cheating-him" , i flip the side of the coin, maybe he's the one doing it, you know what i mean. [/spoiler] switpotato : i agree with you. actually and honestly, i don't want to get married, but that doesn't mean i don't want to have a child, i just want to be a single mom. oh well, maybe in the future i'll change my mind and end up marrying a [s]stupid[/s] guy. lol butterfly_lady : it's okay to have a talk about legal separations, i might learn some lessons. [spoiler]my parents are planning to separate legally (they aren't living in the same roof for 6 years), which is, my sister and i don't want it to happen (we're still holding on). [/spoiler] about the youtube vid posted by ej: rawrrr! what a really nice clip it is! hii hii.