[quote=`mizeL]waaa i missed jesse's two topics... :3 about LDR's .. [spoiler] anyway, i will still post about it. i agree with ej about balancing your life. i've just ended up an LDR lately because this guy's getting possessive and whenever i miss a day of not chatting with him, he'll start to ask so many questions and assume and conclude that i'm busy spending with another guy when in fact i just don't like talking to him on a 24-hour basis(as what rose pointed) because hello, i have my own life too, i must do my own chores at home too and study and all. what the?! then i have this own instinct that when a guy suddenly thinks that i'm "kind-of-cheating-him" , i flip the side of the coin, maybe he's the one doing it, you know what i mean. Waaaaaaa Why does everyone conclude that I'm trying to smother her? It was just one chat session that I wanted some special attention. --I agree about your "own instinct". I think it's a good indication. In the past, whenever my girlfriend started to get "suspicious" about me, it always made me think that maybe she was up to something. Guilty conscience? [/spoiler][/quote]