i make the first signal. lol not the first move. [spoiler]it's like i suddenly sit beside him. and just look as if i'm not feeling good. and then it's up to him if he takes it as a signal to move and caress or move away. i don't know if he sees it as flirting or not. making the first move usually depends on the personality of the person if the girl's the reserved type, i think she'll never initiate. and it's sometimes depends on how the guy will take it. [/spoiler]