@NGeNeRaTiOn dude don't say that you want to do it as if it will be a "tester" You should also respect every woman you will meet. Alright, for the benefit of the other guys here. Here are some procedure that I think it might help you to trigger the girl's libido and at the same time her affection towards you. 1. Start it with your special someone with a serious but romantic affection and feeling which she may sense it in a way that non-physical. It means that you have to let her feel your affection on your gesture. Respect and carefulness will be the main factor. 2. Go near to her and carefully kiss her on her lips. This is your announcement to her that you still respect her because you are not skipping the steps. Don't get too excited. Control yourself and also your "junior" Don't let her notice YET that you are arouse if you are already. If this is your first time, calm yourself and remember that you can impress her by showing her that you are "in control" of the situation. 3. While you are kissing her, it is highly recommended that you should hold the back of her head or her jaw or hair. In this way, you are not just expressing your feeling towards her through your kiss. 4. This is important! One of the ways that I recommend is after you kissed her, let your kisses travel down a bit and going to her neck (side or back of neck, not front neck). Make the kisses as passionate as you can. Also it is better if you will kiss her neck near the back of her ears. Women are vulnerable on this part, or should I say they would really like being kissed on this part. 5. If she's really into this, your kisses can now go down a bit again. On her shoulder, chest, breast, and tummy. It is up to you how long you will kiss her in these part of her body. It depends on her also if she is liking you to kiss her in these parts. 6. Don't skip. If your partner is giving signs that she is ready for your "junior", make her wait. I mean make it more exciting for her. Go "down under." Meet her "precious" first before your "junior" meet her "precious." In this way, your partner will be very active on the situation. She'll appreciate what you are doing. Giving her the time of her life. Women really love it when guys are pleasuring their "precious." They can even meet orgasm(s) just because of this. 7. Her turn? It doesn't matter if she won't participate yet. Remember that you must treat her very special and with respect. Don't force her to do some for you. Don't ask her. If she won't volunteer, then it's alright. There are plenty of time. 8. The moment you've been waiting for. You can now guide her to heaven, or should I say spicy heaven (lol). It is up to the both of you what will be the speed or how fast you can pump. If she says that she likes it slow, then make it slow. And if she says that she likes it quick and hard, then you are a lucky man (lol). 9. There is no number 9. It is up to you now from this stage. Note: You will able to decide now what to do after the number 8. Be sensitive enough to know what she likes and what she doesn't like. And also few conversations with her are alright. I mean you can still ask her if you are doing it alright or she likes something else. Do not laugh. Be serious and romantic. If she laughs at something, just smile and ignore her interruption. LOL! You are busy, right? Don't let her ruin the mood because I know at some point that she'll laugh or something. Be as sexy as you can be to her. I just hope these can help you guys.